A romantic holiday for two sounds like heaven.
Until, that is, you discover one of you is seeking lie-ins and coastal relaxation – while the other wants a jam-packed sightseeing itinerary, starting at the crack of dawn.
Travelling as a couple is frought with challenges, whether it’s conflict over bedtimes, arguments over the destination or even something as simple as where to eat while on holiday.
One in four couples even consider themselves incompatible travel partners, with tensions most likely to flare over budgets, itineraries – and even bedtimes.
A survey of 2,000 people in a relationship found of the 89 per cent of people who have travelled with their partner, 23 per cent don’t think they’re well-matched in their preferences.
Only 28 per cent think their partner ‘ticks all the boxes’ when it comes to travelling together. Among the top things couples disagree about when having a trip away were where to eat, what times to wake up and go to bed, and the budget.
Yet differences aren’t always a deal-breaker.
Railcard.co.uk has created a quiz that will help you discern how travel-compatible you are – it should be taken by both you and your partner to figure out if you’re a match made in heaven, or are heading for the holiday from hell…
Travelling with your partner can be fun – provided you have similar tastes and desires
Research commissioned by Railcard highlights the upsides of travelling as a pair, such as creating memories together, always having someone to talk to and strengthening emotional connections.
A quarter of those surveyed believe opposites attract – because it helps avoid arguments.
The subject of such debates? Such matters as not wanting to sit in the same seat when sharing transport.
Plus, travelling with someone different encourages people to step outside of their comfort zone.
More than half think it takes just one to two trips to know if they are truly travel compatible with someone.
Those who are in sync credit shared preferences around accommodation, activities and budget for their travel compatibility.
Catherine Lyver from Railcard.co.uk said: ‘The study shows that travelling with a plus-one comes with its quirks – from debating who gets the window seat to discovering you have very different definitions of an “early start”.
‘But that’s all part of the fun. Travelling together sparks the kind of conversations that help you learn more about each other and create the memories you laugh about later.
Couples with different travel styles can experience conflict while on holiday together
‘And with a Two Together Railcard, couples, friends or relatives can save a third on their rail journey while enjoying quality time – even if it’s spent negotiating playlists.’
The research also found despite nine in 10 believing travel compatibility matters, more than half think compromise is key to a happy relationship.
Being more considerate of each other’s needs and discussing priorities before a trip are among some of the ways travellers have overcome differences with a companion.
Of the 30 per cent who said a train journey is where they and their partner are most travel compatible, 55 per cent viewed these trips as quality time together and 41 per cent said it gives them a chance to catch up.
The study, carried out via OnePoll, found 37 per cent said a rail trip makes them feel more connected with their other half.
Catherine Lyver added: ‘This Valentine’s Day, it’s likely many couples will be travelling together for a day trip or night away.
‘Why not make the train journey a part of the experience and make the most of the quality time together?’
