A sex therapist has revealed the bedroom techniques that drive women crazy.
Stirling Cooper left the Australian adult film industry in 2020 now his mission is to ‘teach guys how to be the type of lover their woman has always craved.’
‘Dirty talk’ is the key to ‘fast track’ a woman to orgasm, he told DailyMail.com, boasting that he has made countless women climax without touching them.
He said: ‘A woman’s brain is her biggest sexual organ. If a man knows how to use dirty talk correctly, he can halve the time it takes for a woman to orgasm.
Stirling Cooper, a widely popular sex coach, says men can ‘fast track’ women’s orgasms by engaging in dirty talk
Sex drive and attraction start in the brain, and for many women, harnessing the power of the mind during sexual intercourse is key to having a satisfying, pleasant experience
‘You can quite literally fast-track her to an orgasm.’
Through years of coaching men, Mr Cooper claims he has ‘inadvertently’ improved thousands of women’s sexual satisfaction.
The former porn star’s machismo-heavy methods and social media presence have earned him over 200,000 fans, and he publishes self-help videos on YouTube to educate men on erectile dysfunction, boost sex drive, and how to be more dominant in the bedroom.
He said: ‘Every man I’m helping, on the other end of that there’s at least one woman. I’m inadvertently responsible for their happiness directly through my clients.’
Sexual health and well-being are crucial and often overlooked facets of a good life. But recent trends show Americans aren’t having as much sex as they used to.
One of the most comprehensive studies of its kind, the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, found declines in all types of partnered sex from 2009 to 2018.
The study reported that at its start in 2009, 79 percent of people ages 14 to 17 revealed they were not having sex. By 2018, that number rose to 89 percent.
This can lead to resentment in a pair, fighting, and mistrust. This is where Mr Cooper said he comes in.
He said: ‘We have had guys who have been in 20-year marriages tell me they are back in their honeymoon stage and feel like they are dating for the first time again.
‘They say it has sparked the sexual chemistry in their relationship and have stopped nagging and arguing because both the man and the woman are back in their natural polarities.’
Sex drive and attraction start in the brain, and for many women, harnessing the power of the mind during sexual intercourse is key to having a satisfying, pleasant experience.
Engaging in dirty talk in the bedroom can be a minefield. If two partners have never tried it before, it will likely take some extra communication so as to set boundaries and possibly safe words. And that added layer of communication enhances sex further.
A survey of women conducted by Men’s Health found that 92 percent of women enjoyed dirty talk, though they acknowledged that partners need to agree on acceptable words before engaging.
In that same survey, 30 percent of the women said they ‘hated’ hearing the word ‘b***h’ during sex, while 24 percent and 22 percent said the same about the words ‘s**t’ and ‘w***e’ respectively.
Mr Cooper said his methods of teaching men the do’s and don’t’s of sex take into consideration a woman’s sense of safety while still indulging their more primal desires.
He said: ‘A lot of what I teach is the autonomy of women where they want the nurturing space provided but they also want the dominant, rugged masculine type too.’
Mr Cooper, a former adult film star for three years, is zealously anti-porn. He maintains that it impairs a man’s ability to perform sexually and sets unreal expectations about sex.
He said: ‘I retired from adult entertainment in 2020 and it’s important for me to state that I don’t support the industry.
‘It’s not an industry I would ever encourage anyone to get into and it’s not an industry I encourage men to consume either.’
